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WENT TO LOOK AT THE KITTENS THIS WEEK AND ALL ARE SO ADORABLE HOWEVER THIS LITTLE GUY JUST TOOK TO ME CAME AND LAID IN MY LAP AND WENT RIGHT TO SLEEP THERE IS ALSO A LITTLE FEMALE CUTE AS WELL HOWEVER I AM TORN BETWEEN MAKE AND FEMALE JUST WANTED TO SEE WHAT I SHOULD DO? ALL I HEAR IS MALE SPRAY???? I ALSO HAVE A 4 YEAR OLD MINI PIN HE IS A DOLL VERY GOOD ALL HE LIKES TO DO IS SLEEP LOL WANTED TO SEE HOW TO GO ABOUT GETTING THEM TOGETHER AND ALL SO PLEASE HELP ME OUT THANKS SO MUCH
When selecting between kittens you want, always choose based on temperament - particularly reaction to you.

Altered cats rarely spray, particularly if they are altered young. Males are only slightly more likely to have litterbox problems than females (and most litterbox problems are because of illness, which is equal between the sexes).

There are many posts on slow introductions and you can find them with the search feature at the top of the pages. If you need additional ideas, ask about it. You want to start with a safe room, introduce pets under the door and by scent first and carefully supervise interactions. Take things slowly and observe them to set the pace.
I agree with everything JanH says, especially about the spraying. It is rare that a kitten will spray - but remember, males AND females can spray if not altered. I wouldn't even be concerned about it if I were you, especially if the breeder alters before you bring them home.
I too agree with the Teresa and JanH.
Is there any chance you could get them both?
(08-06-2010 07:34 AM)Brandy29 Wrote: [ -> ]WENT TO LOOK AT THE KITTENS THIS WEEK AND ALL ARE SO ADORABLE HOWEVER THIS LITTLE GUY JUST TOOK TO ME CAME AND LAID IN MY LAP AND WENT RIGHT TO SLEEP THERE IS ALSO A LITTLE FEMALE CUTE AS WELL HOWEVER I AM TORN BETWEEN MAKE AND FEMALE JUST WANTED TO SEE WHAT I SHOULD DO? ALL I HEAR IS MALE SPRAY???? I ALSO HAVE A 4 YEAR OLD MINI PIN HE IS A DOLL VERY GOOD ALL HE LIKES TO DO IS SLEEP LOL WANTED TO SEE HOW TO GO ABOUT GETTING THEM TOGETHER AND ALL SO PLEASE HELP ME OUT THANKS SO MUCH
Can you get one of each? LOL I couldn't decide either so got male & female, so happy i did, but yea it's so expensive.
Brandy, As the others have said, choose the one your heart tells you to. I have an altered male & he has never sprayed. We used to have a male cat we found as a stray. He was about a year old when we found he. He sprayed a few times until we got him altered and he never, ever sprayed again.

Welcome & congratulations. Keep us posted on which one you choose. And don't forget the forum rule - once he or she is yours, we expect lots of pictures.

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If you are looking for a lap cat who will just lay with you and let you pet him all the time, Go for the male! That's what I wanted in my raggie but it seems he's a little broken lol. He doesn't much like to cuddle unless it's on HIS terms... I wish I would have had the option to see my kitty before I got him..to see what his personality was like.. (But who Am I kidding I love that boy to death regardless!!) Good luck Chosing, It can be so hard!
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