11-10-2009, 10:52 AM
I have a 7.5 month old blue point male named Buddy. (His name used to be Oliver for those of you that saw my post a few months back!) I have been contemplating whether or not to get another kitten.
Reasons why I'm thinking about it:
- I'm in graduate school, and I worry that when my thesis project gets more stressful Buddy will get lonely. I also may be going out of the country for a week or two this coming summer, so I think that having another kitty in the house would be good for him.
- Buddy is SO loud. He talks all the time and wakes me up every morning at seven AM sharp by meowing in my ear. I've heard that getting another cat may tone down loud cats as they have someone else to talk to.
- I feel like it would be good for him to have another cat to hang out with, play with, and help him clean those hard to reach places.
- Buddy is such a great cat -- who wouldn't want another ragdoll???
Reasons why I'm thinking about NOT getting another cat:
- I live in a 630 sq ft condo -- I worry that there just isn't a lot of space for another cat.
- Buddy is a mama's boy. I worry that another kitty would completely alter the dynamics between us and he would either be mad at me or more content to be with the other cat than me.
- My family keeps telling me that two cats = two times the trouble. I've actually heard the opposite though, and Buddy isn't really a lot of trouble to begin with!
If I decided to get another kitten, I would want to do so before Buddy turned one in March. I've heard that if you don't introduce kittens early enough, the older cat may lose its "kitty social skills" and they may not get along as well. The breeder that I got Buddy from has a litter of three (from Buddy's mom and a different dad) that would be ready to go at the end of December. I thought it might be good to buy from the same breeder as they would have been raised on the same food and the new kitten would have a somewhat familiar smell. However, I am also in contact with three other breeders.
Any advice for me?
Reasons why I'm thinking about it:
- I'm in graduate school, and I worry that when my thesis project gets more stressful Buddy will get lonely. I also may be going out of the country for a week or two this coming summer, so I think that having another kitty in the house would be good for him.
- Buddy is SO loud. He talks all the time and wakes me up every morning at seven AM sharp by meowing in my ear. I've heard that getting another cat may tone down loud cats as they have someone else to talk to.
- I feel like it would be good for him to have another cat to hang out with, play with, and help him clean those hard to reach places.
- Buddy is such a great cat -- who wouldn't want another ragdoll???
Reasons why I'm thinking about NOT getting another cat:
- I live in a 630 sq ft condo -- I worry that there just isn't a lot of space for another cat.
- Buddy is a mama's boy. I worry that another kitty would completely alter the dynamics between us and he would either be mad at me or more content to be with the other cat than me.
- My family keeps telling me that two cats = two times the trouble. I've actually heard the opposite though, and Buddy isn't really a lot of trouble to begin with!
If I decided to get another kitten, I would want to do so before Buddy turned one in March. I've heard that if you don't introduce kittens early enough, the older cat may lose its "kitty social skills" and they may not get along as well. The breeder that I got Buddy from has a litter of three (from Buddy's mom and a different dad) that would be ready to go at the end of December. I thought it might be good to buy from the same breeder as they would have been raised on the same food and the new kitten would have a somewhat familiar smell. However, I am also in contact with three other breeders.
Any advice for me?
