07-25-2009, 09:24 AM
Hi,
As you all know I now have 2 kittens. Both are de-sexed. Lily (female) has been at our home for almost 6 weeks and Luca (male) came home 1 week ago.
So far all is going pretty well. I have kept the new kitten (Luca) in my room and he sleeps, wees & poo's in and eats in my ensuite. No real dramas. He was pretty shy and stressed so I kept him away from Lily for the first few days - bar a few little mini visits. Slowly everyday I have been letting them spend a little time together all seemed to be going well.
Yesterday I noticed a strange smell in my bed! It was urine - ARGHHH, my worst nightmare - it is winter here. So I strip the bed, Doona, blankets sheets etc .... I remake the bed and Lily and Luca are playing Lily jumps up on the bed, Luca (already on my bed) jumps in fright and within seconds Luca wees on my freshly made bed again!! My concern is that he wee'd in almost the exactly same spot which is also near my pillow - yuck!! But he is probably there for comfort and maybe this makes Lily jealous??? I don't think this is spraying but please tell me if you think it is.
Not sure what to do .... If I separate them Lily gets all stressed, becomes very loud and noisy and Luca sits at the closed door crying .... Obviously they want to be together but Luca is still a bit new and easily stressed. I can't have the wee on my bed. Is is it time to bring Luca out into the main house and deal with what happens?? My major concern is that his urine doesn't smell that much and if he wees on my carpet I may not notice for a while ....
Any advice on what to do?
Good new is they seem to now be very happy with one another - they still do the occasional dominance dance/rumble but I think that is pretty normal. They are sleeping, eating together (during the day) and even use the same litter box which surprised me. Lily has her own but she has been using Luca's, he doesn't seem to care. So mostly it is all positive, but I really need to stop this weeing on my bed very quickly before it becomes a drama.
As you all know I now have 2 kittens. Both are de-sexed. Lily (female) has been at our home for almost 6 weeks and Luca (male) came home 1 week ago.
So far all is going pretty well. I have kept the new kitten (Luca) in my room and he sleeps, wees & poo's in and eats in my ensuite. No real dramas. He was pretty shy and stressed so I kept him away from Lily for the first few days - bar a few little mini visits. Slowly everyday I have been letting them spend a little time together all seemed to be going well.
Yesterday I noticed a strange smell in my bed! It was urine - ARGHHH, my worst nightmare - it is winter here. So I strip the bed, Doona, blankets sheets etc .... I remake the bed and Lily and Luca are playing Lily jumps up on the bed, Luca (already on my bed) jumps in fright and within seconds Luca wees on my freshly made bed again!! My concern is that he wee'd in almost the exactly same spot which is also near my pillow - yuck!! But he is probably there for comfort and maybe this makes Lily jealous??? I don't think this is spraying but please tell me if you think it is.
Not sure what to do .... If I separate them Lily gets all stressed, becomes very loud and noisy and Luca sits at the closed door crying .... Obviously they want to be together but Luca is still a bit new and easily stressed. I can't have the wee on my bed. Is is it time to bring Luca out into the main house and deal with what happens?? My major concern is that his urine doesn't smell that much and if he wees on my carpet I may not notice for a while ....
Any advice on what to do?
Good new is they seem to now be very happy with one another - they still do the occasional dominance dance/rumble but I think that is pretty normal. They are sleeping, eating together (during the day) and even use the same litter box which surprised me. Lily has her own but she has been using Luca's, he doesn't seem to care. So mostly it is all positive, but I really need to stop this weeing on my bed very quickly before it becomes a drama.